He’s In

After all the consent forms and information gathering, Rudy was prepped and taken to the cath lab a little before 8am.  Rolf was able to accompany Rudy into the lab as long as he dressed appropriately…good look for him:

Lucky Rolf...they're letting him keep the suit!

So, he’s safely in and sedated and we should hear something in a couple of hours…

Prepped and ready!

Checked In.

Surprises are part of this journey so this chapter started with getting final confirmation at 10:30pm last night from the hospital that we were slotted for the cath lab at 7:30 am (not 11 as we were told a few weeks ago). So, we were up and rolling out of SB just after 4am and got to UCLA for check in at 6am. Rudy slept the whole way and thusfar is enjoying the novelty of the adventure.

More as things develop.

Kinda early to be out and about, dontcha think?
Not so bad once you wake up a bit!
Gettin some momma lovin'

Settling Stomachs

Okay, so I’m probably sharing too much information about what’s going on in our household but be thankful it’s not as detailed of an account as what Max and Livy were discussing this morning as they compared vomit stories with one another.  Ha  Ha  As it turned out,  Rolf stayed out in the living room all night keeping an ear on the sickos…everyone’s tummies finally settled down about 2am.  I stayed in our room with Rudy and so far he’s doing fine.  Unrelated to the events of last night, Rudy had an early morning doctor appointment with a local ENT (Ears, Nose and Throat Doc) so I got him up, ready, out the door and back again before 9am.  First thing this morning, Olivia was pretty weepy and cried as she said, “the worst part of throwing up is that I can’t be close to Rudy” (sweet girl)  but by the time I returned home, she and Max looked chipper and were soon eating saltines.  ‘Praying for a day of rest for the kiddos and a productive one for me as I finish up a few details before tomorrow. 

Although sympathetic to his siblings, Wilson kept his distance and occupied himself with a good book…

We're all becoming a little phobic...
Rudy, however, doesn't seem too concerned.
So far, so good!

Celebrating MLK Day

We braved the harsh rainy weather early this morning to make our way to the annual Martin Luther King Day Celebration at the historic Arlington Theater in Santa Barbara.  We felt it was worth bundling Rudy up and taking him out in this dreary weather to see big brother Max present his winning poem at the big event.  Max was this year’s first place poetry winner in a city-wide competition among 1st-6th graders.  It was a morning filled with state and local dignitaries, speeches and music but our favorite contributor was, of course, Max:
Live Together Poem by Max Geyling
 
We should treat each other equally
Black men and white men with
Black women and white women
And all other kinds of colors of people
 
We should bring each other flowers
In the early morning hours.
As brothers and sisters living in peace,
Our hatred and sorrow will be released.
If we listen to MLK Jr. and keep our cool,
We’ll perish as friends, not as fools.
 
Luckily it’s over where I live
Because I have friends of all colors.
We’ve noticed we can have fun
With the ones our ancestors called dumb.
We can play together,
live together,
cry together,
laugh together,
and die together.
At our school you won’t find one fool.
Miss Grant came in support of Max! -So sweet

 Max was well supported by Wilson, Olivia and Rudy and his teacher, Miss Grant, who was kind enough to come as well.  It was a special opportunity and Rudy enjoyed being a part of it all…

Rudy likes celebrating MLK Jr!
The Arlington Theater offers the added bonus of viewing the actual "Gone With The Wind" couch used in the movie! Rudy is wondering why he can't get a diaper change on it...

And so, we mark our journey with Rudy with yet another memorable holiday.  ‘Just 10 more days until the heart cath…anxious and excited…and, as always, very grateful.

Rudy’s view of the zoo…

Things are relatively peaceful in these parts so thankfully there’s not much to report.  We had a quiet weekend where we stayed close to home, which isn’t so bad when your home is close to the beach and the zoo.  The big kids enjoyed Saturday afternoon out in the surf.  Since Rudy seemed so excited by the ducks, we thought he’d really enjoy a stop at the zoo on Sunday.  Turns out he wasn’t all that excited.  Then we realized that, regardless of what species might have been before us, this was pretty much the view from his stroller:

Sorry, Rudy.

“The 12 Days In The Hospital”

The start of the new year has certainly directed Rolf’s and my thoughts to Rudy’s upcoming surgery but, apparently, it’s weighing on the kids’ minds too as Max and Olivia composed their own version of the following Christmas classic over the weekend…

“The Twelve Days In The Hospital”

On the twelve day in the hospital the doctors gave to me…

12 naps a day

11 x-rays of me

10 doctors operating

9 nurses dancing

8 hospital gowns

7 hopes for the future (how profound and absolutely sweet it this one!)

6 bottles of milk

FIVE STITCHES IN THE STOMACH

4 stuffed animals

3 pacifiers

2 dirty diapers

and an open heart surgery!

As scheduled, Rudy’s dance card has been full this week with visits -so far- to Dr. Harake (SB Cardiologist) and Dr. Pornchai T. (UCLA Pulmonologist).  Both appointments went pretty well…no changes on the heart front and we have the heart cath scheduled for Thursday January 28th.  Rudy is second on the schedule that day so ours will, most likely, be an overnight stay like last time.  There is also the remote possibility that they will go ahead and admit Rudy into the hospital for the Glenn surgery at that time depending on what they find during the cath so we’ll plan accordingly.  Either way we hope to have a plan for the Glenn as a result of this heart cath. 

Rudy and I had a nice drive down the coast to L.A. on Tuesday.  Dr. Pornchai did another thorough examination of Rudy and was a bit concerned this time with the way he was breathing.  His breathing was a bit labored but he was also a little worked up after the long car ride, a late feed, being examined (normal baby stuff).  I didn’t notice much difference from the way he normally is which then left me feeling like maybe I’m not reading Rudy right…what am I missing?…should I be concerned?…etc, etc.  I’m tellin’ you, the mind games you start playing with the smallest of triggers can drive you crazy.  Dr. Pornchai added a nebulizer med to Rudy’s regimin so we’ll start that, keep an eye on him and trust that we’ll know when something is wrong…ugh!

Of course, we had to pop up to the CTICU quickly while we were in the neighborhood to say “hi” to our staff friends and the sweetest part of my day was running into Dr. Andy M. who we haven’t seen since we left the hospital back in May.  As one of the attendings in the PICU/CTICU, Dr. (Papa) Andy oversaw Rudy’s care on numerous occasions and he was so pleased to see  how Rudy has grown.  In his sweet, quiet way he just starred at Rudy and marveled so sincerely at how beautiful he is.  Ahhhh, music to a mother’s ears.  It is always so reassuring to check in with the folks on 5 east as they know so intimately how far Rudy has come.  As the atmosphere in the unit on Tuesday was, once again, serious and intense, I hope our quick visits are mutually encouraging! 

Did I mention Rudy and I had a nice drive down the coast?  We are definitely blessed with a pretty commute down to L.A….especially in the winter time.  I LOVE Santa Barbara in the winter… the sky is so clear and blue, the air is fresh and you can actually see the channel islands!   Rolf captured these pics of Wilson on Sunday…a calm Pacific Ocean-

Water you can walk on!

Water calm enough for Rudy!!!…I look forward to the day when Rudy can join them on one of their kayak excursions!

Happy New Year 2010

Celebrating the East Coast New Year! (9pm PT)

Not sure we'll make it to midnight...
Midnight on the West Coast...Happy New Year Big Boy!

 How is it possible that it is not only the start of a new year but also another decade!!!!  My memories of it turning 2000 are much too vivid for it to now be 2010!!!!  Yikes, can we all please slow down a bit.  My mind has been full today…reflecting on all that happened in 2009, trying hard not to worry about what is to come in 2010 and wishing I were with my oldest brother and his family in Indy as they celebrate the wedding of my niece Stefanie.  ‘Just got this pic sent to me from the reception that’s happening right now!!!…Technology is pretty cool:

Father of the Bride

Again I say “Slow down…life is happening much too fast!” 

The theme around our household today has been roses and football.  I woke this morning to breakfast in bed complete with one of Rolf’s fresh cut roses just in time to watch the Rose Parade on t.v.  Rudy and I watched the Rose Parade last year in his hospital room but I think he liked this year’s view a little better.

Yum, yum
Rudy's front row seat to view the parade
Daddy's roses are prettier than the ones on t.v.
A new year kiss from Wilson
Everyone ended up in mom and dad's bed for the parade!

Once the parade ended, football was next on the agenda…the Capitol One bowl, the Rose bowl possibly the Sugar bowl a little later.  Rolf and Max had a very special treat with a quick trip to El Paso Wednesday and Thursday to see Stanford play in the Sun Bowl thanks to our best man Ruben (we chose wisely!).  Max was definitely in heaven…

Super Fan!

And so, Wilson made it home safely from his church youth group trip, Rolf & Max made it home from the game and we all enjoyed New Year’s Eve at home under one roof over a piping hot plate of Olivia’s cheesiest macaroni & cheese she made with the help of her new cookbook.  A great start to the new year…

Today is also Rudy’s 15-month birthday…we continue to cherish each milestone!

Trach-Froggie helps Rudy celebrate 15 months!
Happy 15-month Birthday Rudy!

The House Is Still All A’Bustle!

We continue to take full advantage of our Christmas vacation by engaging in a number of our favorite activities.  Rolf and the big boys headed up to Solvang first thing Saturday morning to get a good day of skating in at the skatepark.  It still amazes me how the boys can jump back into the bowl and skate as well as they do especially since months can go by between skating treks to Solvang.  Thankfully, it was a fun, injury-free trip and a great start to Wilson’s “ultimate-boarder” week as he took off the following day for a snowboard trip with the church youth group and plans to surf on New Year’s day.

Way to go Maxo!!!!
Wilson in flight...

Sunday was Livy and Rudy’s turn as they headed off to the lake near our house with a bag of bread to feed the ducks.  The last time Rudy ventured out to feed the ducks he wasn’t able to focus on them very well so it was a real treat to see him get so excited this time…a clear sign of growth and progress.

It's official...Rudy likes ducks!
I think he likes his Daddy too...
...and his sister!

And so the week continues with a couple of visits with good friends, good football to be watched and good play!

Holiday At Home Highlights

Wisely, Rolf turned off Max’s alarm which was set to go off at 6:30am when we went to bed on Christmas Eve and that bought us another hour of sleep Christmas morning.  We were awakened by the troops at 7:30am ready to start the day…

The big kids proudly presented their gifts to Rudy first thing…a race car Wilson made in shop class, a teddy bear from Max and a blanket Livy sewed with her Girl Scout sewing skills.  I think Rudy was wondering why everyone was home on a weekday and what all the fuss was about but he quickly settled back and watched in amazement at all the excited activity.

Rudy's first shower
Christmas Day 2009 will also be remembered for being the day Rudy had his first shower with Daddy…He is getting much too big for the sponge baths on the kitchen countertop he has been getting and not quite ready for sitting in the bath tub so we thought we’d try something new and he liked it…except when he arched his back and got water all over his face…good thing Daddy has a strong grip…he was a slippery little sucker.
Once we were all cleaned up and dressed, we were off to the Rescue Mission for the Inaugural Santa Barbara Rescue Mission President’s Turkey Bowling Tourney!  It was an exciting afternoon of athletic excellence!
Let the game begin!
There's more than one way to tenderize a turkey!

 Our day ended with us all snuggled in bed at home….once again, so grateful to be home.  Rudy ended the day grateful for his new slinky and big red ball: