June 2015 – Rudy's Beat

Our summer is well under way and we’ve had non-stop fun since the last day of school!

Wilson actually skipped HIS last day of school and our family headed south to attend the wedding of dear friends... — Wilson actually skipped HIS last day of school on June 5th and our family headed south to attend the wedding of dear friends…

Rudy hadn't quite mastered walking with his cast yet so he had to skip the dancing this wedding but he had fun celebrating Pastor Aaron and his new bride Paige nonetheless!! Woo Hoo!! :) — Rudy hadn’t quite mastered walking with his cast yet so he had to skip the dancing this wedding but he had fun celebrating Pastor Aaron and his new bride Paige nonetheless!! Woo Hoo!! 🙂

Aaron and Paige are dear to our whole family...especially our kids and it is SO MUCH FUN celebrating special people in our life together! — Aaron and Paige are dear to our whole family…especially our kids and it is SO MUCH FUN celebrating special people in our family’s life together!

Grandma Jo and Oma arrived a couple of days later in time for Wilson’s graduation on the 10th. The 10th was also Max and Olivia’s long awaited last day of school!!! Woo Hoo We had lots going on that day! 🙂

Goin' to get that diploma! — Goin’ to get that diploma!

Wilson was selected to give one of the student speeches during the commencement ceremony and it was, of course, a highlight of our day. Rolf and I weren’t allowed to read it or help him edit it beforehand as he wanted it to be a surprise. 😉 I’m glad we have a video and transcript of it because, in all honesty, it was hard to focus on what he was saying…all I could think about was how much he’s seen and experienced in his 18 years that has helped shape him…his early years in South Central Los Angeles as a missionary kid, going with the flow through several moves (and three elementary schools) until we settled in Goleta, the many hours he has spent at the rescue mission and, of course, being the big brother to Max, Olivia and Rudy (and the unique experiences/responsibilities that come with being the older sibling of a heart kid). As Wilson shared his thoughts on “community” with conviction and confidence, all I saw was God’s grace in action…I have no idea to what extent God has extended grace to Wilson in his life so far but I do know without a doubt that there have been many crossroads in the life of our family where darkness and heartbreak could have overwhelmed his spirit but instead he has grown to be a young man confident in God’s love for him and in a greater purpose for life beyond himself! So, so grateful and so motivated to pray for continued grace to be poured out on him, Max and Olivia (& Rudy too) as the uncertainties of the future unfold in due time.

What made me most proud listening to Wilson’s speech was knowing how whole-heartedly he believes in the power of community. He demonstrates it in how he does life and he inspires me.

"The relationships you have with people and the way you maintain those relationships are what is going to matter. Whether revered or shameful that is the legacy that we will all leave behind." — “The relationships you have with people and the way you maintain those relationships are what is going to matter. Whether revered or shameful that is the legacy that we will all leave behind.”

Rudy, the Grandmas and I had prime handicap seats!!! Thanks for this fun picture Kathy!!!!

Rudy sporting a limited edition Wilson button :) — Rudy sporting a limited edition Wilson button 🙂

After graduation, we hosted an open house to celebrate and over 60 friends came! — After graduation, we celebrated some more with 60+ friends at our home.

We were so grateful to share the evening with friends from church, the neighborhood and the rescue mission!! :) — We were so grateful to share the evening with friends from LA, church, the neighborhood and the rescue mission!! 🙂

Our good friend Bob and Wilson's god-father shared a few thoughts and a prayer. — Our good friend Bob (and also Wilson’s god-father) shared a few thoughts and a prayer.

Rudy getting some help signing the guest photo mat :) — Rudy getting some help signing the guest photo mat 🙂

Rudy's buddy Kyle and his family joined our graduation fun!! — Rudy’s buddy Kyle and his family joined the graduation fun!!

After all that, Rudy still had two more days left of school (Livy even went with him one day to help in his classroom)…he wrapped up his first year at Mountain View on Friday the 12th! We are so grateful for his successful and super fun first year in Kindergarten…our thanks go out to his teachers Mr. Casady and Miss Avedissian and his nurses Sara, Jomana, Viviana and Karen who all contributed in BIG ways to his adjustment to a new school and his progress! Way to go Team Rudy!!!

Rudy's last day of school!! — Rudy’s last day of school!!

Rudy has had a little break and will head back to school for the special ed “extended school year” program next Monday. Although the summer program is less structured than the regular school year, it helps keep the momentum of Rudy’s progress going and Nurse Viviana will be there to maintain continuity in his care. Rudy will enjoy seeing Viviana and some of his friends again!

Once all the graduation festivities came to an end, we put the two grandmas to work as we got everyone organized for a big family trip to Hawai’i!!! Yep, we decided to bite the bullet and make this trip happen (with grandmas in tow too) since this will likely be the last opportunity we’ll all have to travel together like this. It took months to plan and Rudy has had a bit of a tough adjustment to the heat and humidity of the islands but all in all the hard work and effort in getting our family to Oahu and Maui has been worth it. Talk about starting off the summer with a big bang…it’ll be hard to top this but we have a whole summer ahead to look forward to. I’ll post some fun pics of our adventure when we return in a few days.

Aloha and “Happy Summer” everyone!!

So, when I posted on Saturday that we were ready to “wrap it up”, I did NOT mean this literally. As luck would have it, Rudy had a little mishap on Sunday afternoon that resulted in a trip to the ER and a linear fracture in his left tibia. His leg got wrapped up nice and snug until we could get him to the ortho today. We just returned from Dr. Maguire’s office and, yep, he broke his leg! Fudge! Poop! DAAAARN it! Aside from the fact that it’s just plain sad to see a little boy in a leg cast at the onset of summer, we’re actually scheduled to take a looooong awaited family trip to Hawaii in a couple of weeks and Rudy’s cast has to stay on for 4 weeks…no ocean fun for the 1/2 heart in Hawaii. 😦 Boo Hoo…not sure he cares but the rest of us are sad for him. 😦 😦 (double sad face!). Prayers for patience in the healing process are greatly appreciated. The cast wasn’t on for 30 minutes before he started to point to it and say “Off, Mama, off”. Lord have mercy (this I mean literally)…could be a long four weeks. Hang in there Super Rudy!