There actually may be light at the end of the tunnel!!!  After 6 days of non-stop effort and a round of buzz cuts for the boys, we may be nearing the end of our lice infestation.  I’m sure praying it’s so…this has been a draining week on all levels and we have VBS at our church next week with all of us volunteering in various roles so we need to be free and clear!

Life definitely took a detour this week but we managed to pack in a great deal nonetheless (with heads covered, of course!). Ha Ha  We took a break from all that was happening at home for a few hours on Wednesday and enjoyed the annual BBQ feast at the Rescue Mission for the homeless guests.  We were blessed with  mild weather so everyone felt comfortable hanging out all afternoon (unlike years past when guests would eat and run in search of shade), a great mix of amplified tunes led to some spontaneous dancing in the parking lot and all genuinely felt relaxed and happy.  I heard from a couple of guests how nice it was to feel welcomed at a public 4th of July event for a change!  I’m so grateful the staff and residents at the Rescue Mission can provide that kind of loving experience to the homeless in our community.  On Thursday night we enjoyed having the women who are graduating from the Rescue Mission Recovery Program tonight over for dinner…like last week when we hosted the men, we were in awe of these women and their courage in their recovery journey.  Tonight is graduation so we have a big evening ahead of us!  Lots of hope happening at SBRM this week, for sure! 🙂  And, it’s all been a helpful reminder for me to keep my troubles in proper perspective.

As for Rudy, well, he has been somewhat neglected this week…all the kids were great at stepping in and helping with Rudy when Rolf and I just couldn’t (including an incident involving a very messy, runny diaper that I won’t elaborate on right now but it was epic) but he definitely was forced to stay in his little “kiddie corral” a good bit of the week.  Why does Rudy have a kiddie corral, you ask?  Oh, well that would be because of the incident that happened last week before we were hit with the whole lice situation…when Olivia, Rudy and I returned home one afternoon from our mid-day shuttle run pick-ups.

I gave Rudy his afternoon feed, meds, changed his diaper,etc and set him up with Olivia to watch a little t.v. and chill while I tried to get some paperwork done in my room.  Because it was a hot day, I left the garage door open to get a little cross breeze through my room as I always do on hot days and, ahhhh, all was quiet and settled in the house of Geyling.  Now, I admit, I was remiss not to check on the kids for an hour but all was quiet and I assumed the kids fell asleep after a long day at their various summer activities.  Well, you know what happens when one assumes, right?

Olivia came to my room white as a ghost and said “Mom, there was a knock at the front door, I opened it and…”.  When she paused, I immediately went into “stranger danger” mode wondering what in the world could have left her somewhat traumatized.  “It was Rudy, Mom!!!”  What?  How could it be Rudy?  We both ran to the living room where she left him to find him detached from his oxygen, dirty and battered on the backs of his thighs and legs!  We then traced his steps and discovered that he had bottom-scooted down the hall toward my room, got down the step into the garage, unplugged himself from the oxygen halfway through the garage and out the door he went (much like he did the day we cleaned out the garage but this time we weren’t out there with him!!!)  From the looks of his legs and diaper, his incredible journey included a little jaunt on the asphalt as well as time spent in our front yard as evidenced by the prickly balls that were stuck to his diaper!!!  Thanks be to God, he had the presence of mind when he was done exploring to bottom-scoot back up the incline to our front door and knock loud enough for Olivia to hear him!!!  Needless to say, we promptly got Rudy cleaned up and got the house closed up completely grateful the incident was something we could laugh at once our hearts stopped pounding.  Rudy was happy as a lark and very proud of himself, of course.

I’ve done the toddler thing three times before, I should know better but it was beyond my imagination that Rudy could do what he did to begin with and then do it so quietly that I wouldn’t hear him grunt as he worked his way down the step (which, by the way, is just a few feet from where I was) or cackle as he glided across the garage floor as he does when he’s excited!  Good grief.  This boy is READY to MOVE and expand his world!!!

Well, it looks like Rudy’s incredible journey may take flight sometime this winter.  We’ve been in a process with the Make-A-Wish Foundation for a few months now discussing an opportunity to take the family to “Give Kids The World” – a resort in Florida designed specifically for kids with life-threatening illnesses and their families.  A friend of mine went last year with her niece and said she couldn’t stop thinking of Rudy the whole time she was there.  How sweet! I haven’t wanted to get my hopes up too high because a lot could happen between now and January when we hope to go but the article linked below was published in a local paper this week mentioning our trip and requesting frequent flyer mile donations!  It really got us excited!  Check it out!!!

Noozhawk article

We are humbled and totally honored that the Make-A-Wish Foundation is even considering granting Rudy and our family a wish for a fun, memory making trip that is safe for Rudy!  The staff and volunteers we’ve talked to have been amazing …so sensitive and caring and fun.  Boy, this week sure has been filled with a wide range of extreme emotions!  The bottom line is…God is good, all the time…in the good times and the bad!!!  Bless you friends…especially those living in all the hot spots and fire spots across the country…I’ve been praying for you too!  Love and hugs…

Well, just as we wrapped up Wilson’s infected leg wound issue (yes, his culture came back positive for MRSA!  Thankfully, he was on the appropriate antibiotic at home so no further intervention was necessary) our household got hit head-on (no pun intended) with lice!!  Yep, for a gal who is a borderline germ-a-phobe, this isn’t a great week for me!  We’re not sure how long we’ve had it but we all have it and are on day 2 of treatment with accompanying laundry marathon.  I admit I’m feeling very overwhelmed and burdened with trying to treat everyone while keeping up with the constant cleaning that has to happen.  I dreamt last night that we got everything cleaned up, closed up and then left for an exotic vacation for 28 days (the recommended time one should keep things bagged up after treatment)!  Needless to say, I was sad to wake up.

The kids, on the other hand, have been amazing troopers (and Rolf?…quite the nit-picker!) and all are maintaining pretty good attitudes…I’m making everyone wear hair caps at home and there were even ideas thrown around last night for a “Lunch Lady” song…stay tuned!  Ha The silver lining in this is that we found Olivia’s lost iPod yesterday when we tore her room apart for a deep cleaning…that made us happy.  We have a huge week ahead…lice aren’t the end of the world but they sure are disrupting our world and are hard to manage when you’re low on emotional reserves to begin with…would you please pray…that we’ll nip this in the bud with this first 7-day treatment regimen and for, well, stamina, I guess?  So grateful for the friends who have been able to lend a hand and our prayer warriors near and far!  Bless you friends…Happy 4th of July!!!

Check out Rudy’s cute trach-tie tan line…posting it just because…

Rockin’ the hair nets!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Rudy got a very special delivery from Tri-County Mobility today…

It took several months but Rudy’s new wheelchair arrived today…and after a few adjustments:

Rudy was ready to cruise State Street…

We are so grateful for the many ways God has provided for Rudy’s mobility.  When our first attempt to get Rudy a wheelchair hit a frustrating dead end, we were incredibly blessed by the Ruppert family who passed down their daughter’s medical stroller to us almost 2 years ago (!!!) and just when Rudy started to outgrow the medical stroller, he qualified for CCS which opened the door for a second attempt at a wheelchair resulting in today’s delivery!   Wow!

Rudy also had cast molds made of his legs recently for the manufacturing of leg braces that we’ll start using in therapy…his cool Superman braces are due to arrive in the next few weeks so there are a couple of new adjustments ahead for Rudy in the DME (Durable Medical Equipment) department.

And all this excitement comes after a particularly full weekend that included…

In addition to all the activity in our household, Rudy is starting to call the sibs by name…well, his names!  Wilson is “Bubba” (which we think is “Brother”), Max is “AppleD” (which we think is “Hi Buddy”) and Olivia is “I-ya”!  It is so precious and, of course, the big kids melt every time Rudy calls them by their nicknames.

He demonstrated that he’s really catching on to the name game when he called a local blog-friend by name as Rolf checked her blog for an update last night…we love you Daisy!

Okay, well I guess I better run…it appears I’ve been on the blog a little too long and not attending to Rudy much this afternoon given where he has ended up…

Life is swirling and we’re trying hard to savor each swirl!  Bless you friends!!

We are excited to report that we finally heard back from Dr. Woo’s (pulmonology) office with the results from Rudy’s April 16th sleep study and the word is “he did well”!  We have an appointment with Dr. Woo scheduled for July 9th so we’ll get a chance to talk with her directly and get more details then but for now we are grateful for encouraging results.  Unfortunately we won’t be able to start the process of weaning Rudy off the trach right away because Rudy’s next heart cath is so soon and if by some miracle it is determined that Rudy is a Glenn candidate after the cath, then the docs would prefer to keep Rudy trached as it’s much easier to vent him during procedures with the trach.  So, we’ll have to wait a bit more and see what develops in the next couple of months.

It was confirmed today at Rudy’s monthly cardiology appt that his heart cath is scheduled for August 1st at UCLA…he’ll be the first or second case on the schedule that day and, most likely, need to spend the night for observation.  Rudy’s heart looks about the same…Dr. Harake did report that Rudy’s right atrium is quite enlarged.  This is a rather common complication with HLHS hearts but he did say that this along with the coarctation of the aorta and the pulmonary hypertension are all potential obstacles to a successful Glenn.  We’ve talked about Rudy’s enlarged heart before but he seemed to indicate that the right atrium appears larger.  We’ll likely discuss this more after the cath but it’s a helpful (and somewhat sobering) reminder to us that success in treating Rudy’s pulmonary hypertension (which is what we’ve been focused on for so long) won’t necessarily give us a green light to the Glenn…there are quite a few variables that need to align to give Rudy  a chance at a successful Glenn procedure.  I really wish we could simplify the situation to a couple of neat and tidy “bullet points” that make all the information easier to digest but even in layman’s terms it’s complicated and that feels a little heavy.  (big sigh)

Sadly, today was also Rudy’s last day with Nurse Marecar.  Although nurses moving on is a common and understandable occurrence, it’s never easy to say goodbye to a special care-giver and adjust to someone new.  Nurse Marecar was Rudy’s school nurse who rode with him on the bus, accompanied him in the classroom and rode back home with him.  He was  happy to see Nurse “Keg” each school day and she will be greatly missed.  We wish her well, though, and thank her for her sweet care of Rudy these past 5 1/2 months.

Tomorrow we welcome Nurse Cat to “Team Rudy” and look forward to getting to know her more as she has committed to Rudy’s school gig for the summer.  Ever humbled and grateful for the village it takes to educate our son!  🙂

Thank you all for your commitment to pray!!!  There is much to praise God for – always – and much to continue to pray for – always!  Ever grateful for YOU…

It’s hard to believe another Father’s Day is quickly coming to a close!  In typical Geyling fashion, we enjoyed a simple celebration at home this afternoon after a fun morning at church.  Our day may have been filled with simple pleasures (i.e. pool time with friends, Fritos Bean Dip! and a Carvel ice cream cake) but there is also a far-from-simple, profound feeling of gratitude that isn’t overlooked on a day like today.  Gratitude for our family, in particular, and the many ways I see God’s grace and love  reflected in the kids…through their unique personalities, their individual gifts, their sensitivity toward God and others less fortunate and the different insights about our world they offer.  Rolf and I are truly blessed and I’m grateful to God that those blessings far outweigh the challenges and concerns that weigh heaviest on our hearts.

I’m pretty sure I’ve mentioned it before but my appreciation for Rolf grew with the arrival of each one of our kids…I fell in love with him all over again when he became a dad and demonstrated his commitment to our life together on a much deeper level with creativity and total engagement.  We have partnered well through the twists & turns of our life together and had some fun along the way.  I am grateful for his love, his hard work to provide for our family and literally build a roof over our heads and for his commitment to serve our community.  I’m glad I’m not the only one who recognizes his special qualities…click here and check out this special honor.

I’m also incredibly grateful on this Father’s Day for the fathers with whom God has blessed my life…the father I gained when I married Rolf…a man who is very thoughtful in his affirmation and exemplifies responsibility, commitment and loyalty.

And, my Dad who also modeled a very strong sense of responsibility and commitment as well as a the gift of discipline which were all enhanced by his friendly demeanor and contagious laugh,

Although cancer took my dad much too soon, my love and appreciation for him remain a constant especially as I grow in my understanding of what it requires to be a parent…there are many things I choose to do as a parent that can be traced back to him.  🙂

Ah, there is much to be grateful for and celebrate in the men that have filled my life…blessings I pray I never take for granted!

Rolf sporting the traditional handmade Father’s Day Tshirt…He’s definitely our SUP (Stand Up Paddleboard) King!

It is SO RIGHT for us to take the time to stop and honor the men in our lives that work hard to make right choices with the best interest of those they love in mind.  Well done men and may you know how very much our world is richer because of individuals like you!  Happy Father’s Day to all the Dads out there!

Gosh, sorry we haven’t posted in awhile…truth be told, I’ve been waiting to post the sleep study results but as of Friday, Rudy’s pulmonologist at UCLA hadn’t heard back from the folks at CHLA with the report yet so we’re still waiting.  Hopefully we’ll hear back this week.  I’m also waiting to hear confirmation on Rudy’s heart cath date in July so there are still a number of details that are up in the air for our family regarding the summer schedule which is making it hard for this type A personality to relax.  🙂  We have a day trip to UCLA on July 9th for a couple of appointments and then again later in the month for the heart cath with appts with Rudy’s specialists here in Santa Barbara in between so July will be full with medical stuff but I’m working hard to keep the rest of the summer medical appointment/procedure-free.

We celebrated another friend’s wedding, Mother’s Day, a couple of end-of-the-year school performances AND Rolf’s Birthday since we posted last!!!  We sure haven’t been lacking in celebrations this spring!  🙂  Rudy has hung in there through most of it but he sure prefers hanging out at home…especially now that we’re spending more time outdoors in our backyard.  Rudy is content to play in his wading pool for hours (if we’d let him) and laughs his big belly laugh while watching the big kids play their crazy games in the big pool.  He’s getting pretty cocky on his little trike too and likes to head full speed down the incline of our driveway into the cul-de-sac!  I have to admit that I’m beginning to wonder if the increase in physical activity puts too much strain on his half a heart…a heart-mom worry that I haven’t really experienced yet…but then again, I’m not sure he’d have it any other way and the quality of life benefit is certainly abundant so I try to tuck away the worry and trust God, as always, for every detail.

Here’s a quick look at some of the fun…

Okay, I’ll stop with the miscellaneous post for now…hopefully we’ll have something specific to report this week from UCLA!  Ever grateful…

From the start of our journey with Rudy, Rolf and I have attempted to be honest with the big kids and not keep important information from them that they are able to understand even if that information is bad news or scary.  It has been important for all of us to face the reality of our situation head-on and, hopefully, navigate all the ups and downs as healthy as possible.  I’d like to say Rolf and I have been really good at sitting down with the kids and “updating” them as needed with open discussions about how Rudy is doing and asking them how they are doing but the reality is that doesn’t happen very often.  The kids are usually informed by the quick call home after a hospital procedure or the mention of a dr. appt at the dinner table or, frankly, by posts on Rudy’s Beat and the intentional dialogue usually happens one-on-one during car rides from school or to an activity.  Sometimes I make an attempt to talk to the big kids about Rudy and they aren’t in the mood.  So, you charge along in the fast-paced life of a family that is growing up thinking you have a good handle on how everyone is doing and what everyone is feeling and then, out of the blue,  you catch a glimpse of your kids…a deeper insight into their thoughts…and you realize the impact of life’s unique experiences runs so much deeper than you hear about in those quick “check-ins” from time to time.

Sometimes it can come indirectly like when Olivia asked me if there are any “nursing” summer camps out there that she could sign up for this summer!!!  (Nursing summer camps? Yikes!  I have no idea)  Gee, I wonder what’s shaping that interest?

And sometimes it can come directly through an English writing assignment  that ends up getting published in the school newspaper as Max’s did last week:

Here, let me zoom in a bit…it’s worth a read:

I so love that Max chose to write this article…I don’t think I’ve ever had the opportunity to hear his take on Rudy like this and a couple of things surprised me but mostly I love his “shout out” to Rudy’s doctors and nurses (timely, with this being “Nurse Appreciation Week”!) and his assessment that, in the end, the extra work involved in caring for Rudy is all worth it!  Who knows, maybe we have a future blogger or two or three in our midst?!  Ha 🙂  I hung Max’s article on the wall next to Rudy’s crib…a helpful reminder that the big kids are thinking and feeling and processing more than I give them credit for and prayer for their “heart health” is just as important as for Rudy’s :).