Full Metal Jacket

Thanks for praying us through a loaded day yesterday. Given the haste with which this cath was scheduled–and some of the past experiences we’ve had of cath results being a kick to the gut–we were a bit apprehensive leading into things and probably even steeling ourselves for some tough news.

Our anxiety was heightened by the discussions during pre-op. The primary goal was to see if there were any things that could be done to lessen the strain on Rudy’s enlarged heart. Signs pointed to the coarctation in his aorta (fancy doctor-speak for a tight bend which restricted flow–like a stubborn kink in a gardenhose). The team has previously tried to correct this by inflating with a ballon, but the bend acted like a crease and it popped back. The way to fix it would be to insert a metal stent, which is common in adult patients, but Dr. Dan couldn’t think of a patient as young as Rudy in which he had ever done it. The main problem is “getting the equipment to the jobsite”. The large stent and catheter they would need to do the job would need to be threaded up the femoral artery from his leg and there was concern it just wouldn’t fit. Additionally (and admittedly a bit disheartening) is the fact that the left femoral artery is Rudy’s last un-occluded path to his heart.  Even the most skillful intervention creates scarring and an artery can only be used a limited number of times before it becomes impassable, leaving more complicated surgical cut-ins as the only option. So the team needed to weigh whether any intervention was worth that cost, but they wouldn’t really know for sure until they got in and assessed things.

Needless to say our heads were spinning more than usual as we headed downstairs–but at least it took away our appetites and kept us from stress eating our way through the waiting. Good company and a lot of drop-bys from docs and nurses helped to pass the time. We got a progress call from the lab nurse around 3 hours in that they had stented the Sano shunt (which had narrowed significantly) and were finishing up–no action on the aorta. Not bad news, but we kind of prepared ourselves for a “there was really nothing much we could do” conference.

Just a few minutes later we got paged again and Dr. Dan was on the phone rattling through the positives: heart function looks better than everyone feared (perhaps the reason we suspect they rushed us in), they were able to open up the Sano to its original size, and now they had just finished a consult with Rudy’s surgeon and did feel that they should attempt to stent the aorta.

The significance of the moment only hits me in hindsight, but almost unnoticeably things shifted into the quiet intensity that one can suddenly find themselves in in the cardiac world. Just as Dan told me that Brian Reemtsen (surgeon) was coming coming out to speak to us, Brian stepped around the corner. We had a brief three-way exchange with Dan in my ear and Brian in front of me to make sure I understood what was happening and that they were in agreement. Dan finished with, “we will stop at any point if we feel it isn’t safe, but do we have your permission to proceed?” Of course, I agreed but it was only later that it struck me that this was not a routine procedure.  Even with the global consents we had signed in pre-op, there was something about what they were attempting that they felt like they needed specific consent for.

Dr. Brian spent time with Trish and I expressing encouragement over Rudy’s condition and that, given the strength of the heart muscle, it was very worthwhile to attempt a step like this to reduce the strain.  While any future surgical course is still unclear, successfully addressing the coarctation would have to happen first. Brian certainly wasn’t promising anything specific, but there was a note of wonder that we might be talking about that someday.

We had a bit more to wait before Dr. Dan showed up to give his report and walk through the imagery. He was very upbeat and told us right away that the aortic stent could not have turned out better. The arc had narrowed to 9mm and they were able to insert and expand a stent to 16mm–the size of an adult aorta–which means there is no pressure gradient across it and the blood flows freely!

As the nurse told us over the phone they were also able to fully rehab the Sano shunt to its original 5mm diameter. It had shrunk down to 2.2mm at it’s smallest point, but they used multiple stents and balloons to get it back to its original diameter. As this is supposed to be the primary means Rudy’s heart has to oxygenate his blood, it’s very good to have it free and clear (and gives us chills to think how tiny it had become). Dr. Brian also commented on how amazing that little shunt has performed–he hasn’t seen one last so long and serve a patient as well as Rudy’s has. That could raise concern that we are well past borrowed time, but Dan said he’s now given the Sano and the aorta “full metal jackets” by lining them with stents which will keep them stable, open and clear for a long time.

Dr. Dan was very pleased, but also wanted to get back to Rudy as he was very concerned about the femoral artery. He said they would watch that very carefully overnight as a bleed there would be a major issue.  As you can already tell, the time in recovery went really smoothly and Rudy was peaceful and content to lie still like he was supposed to for the rest of the day and slept through the night.   Among the more significant developments was that his 02 sats were consistently in the high 80s (compared to the low to mid 70s where they’ve been of late.  Since this was his first post-trache cath, it was also the first time he was intubated, so he had a scratchy throat and barely spoke above a whisper–until the moment he saw his big sibs at home had him squealing with his trademark joy.

We’ve learned to navigate this journey and all its big uncertainties by looking for reasons to celebrate and embracing them.  That’s what this day meant for us.  The big questions didn’t get answered and the major issues didn’t get resolved–but who knows if and when they ever will.  For now, we’ll celebrate Rudy’s armor-plated arteries and the positive step they are.

 

Family FaceTime makes hospital stays more fun--but nothing's better than being together in person again!
Family FaceTime makes hospital stays more fun–but nothing’s better than being together in person again!

Home, Sweet, Home

Our home is quite a bit sweeter now that the big sibs are home safely from their trip to KS!  All reports are of a great trip to see Gma Jo and the Wilson cousins!  I’m thrilled they had a nice time but also really glad to have them home as is Rudy who was too excited to take a nap this afternoon.  🙂

We’ll have Monday to get everyone settled and unpacked and then Rolf, Livy and I will head down to UCLA on Tuesday with Rudy for his cath.  We’ve had a couple of little hiccups this past week with a short seizure early Thursday morning (3am) and a shiner on his left eye from a spill on his motorized bike today!  He’s happy and no worse for the wear but he sure is keeping us on our toes as we prepare for this cath.  🙂  We’ll post an update on Tuesday…as always, thank you for your prayers!

Chillin' with Dad watching the World Cup!
Chillin’ with Dad watching the World Cup!
Chillin' with the Black Sheep Harley Club at church!  Rudy was pretty proud of his hog among the lineup of Harleys...
Chillin’ with the Black Sheep Harley Club at church! Rudy was pretty proud of his hog among the lineup of Harleys…
…he got a little street cred among the Black Sheep when he tipped his hog and got himself a nice shiner!!!
…he got a little street cred among the Black Sheep when he tipped his hog and got himself a nice shiner!!!
Welcome Home Big Sibs!
Welcome Home Big Sibs!

Clinic Update

Passing time with Daddy in clinic...
Passing time with Daddy in clinic…

We made it home from L.A. just in time to take a dip in the pool before supper.  Rudy is eager to get in the water after a full day buckled in his wheelchair.  Our visit to the heart clinic today was relatively quick…Rudy made quick work of his extensive echo exam by sitting still and cooperating nicely.  We talked with Nurse Flo (the transplant coordinator) over her long list of routine questions and then we waited for Dr. Alejos.  He was needed at the hospital and couldn’t get away so we ended up seeing Dr. Reardon (a.k.a. Dr. Leigh) instead.  We don’t normally consult with Dr. Leigh but he was a fellow in 2008/2009 when Rudy was hospitalized and is quite familiar with Rudy’s history.  Although we would have really liked to talk to Dr. Alejos, it was fun to see Dr. Leigh again after all these years and hear him “oooh” and “aaaah” in amazement over how far Rudy has come.  One thing I like about Dr. Leigh is he’s not afraid to talk about the “what ifs” and he tells it like he sees it.  He took a look at the echo images and confirmed what Dr. Harake told us last week…that Rudy has moved from “mild” to “moderate” heart failure…but feels Rudy is still a ways off from being in “severe” heart failure which would be the next phase in the spectrum.  He did see a narrowing of the arch which he believes may need an angioplasty during next week’s cath but ultimately that will be Drs. Harake and Levi’s call once they get in there.  There really wasn’t a whole lot more Dr. Leigh could tell us.  We knew we wouldn’t walk away from today’s appt with any new revelations or game plan but we’re still left  feeling discouraged over the fact that there is no neat and tidy action step that will prevent Rudy’s heart from failing.

We talked a little about the purpose of clinic…how some patients are there for the transplant process while others are there simply to manage their heart failure and others still are there, like today, to transition from being pediatric cardiac patients to adult management and care.  It was interesting to see the young adults who were there today navigating that very crucial transition to adult cardiac care…once again, Rolf and I walked away from clinic with a glimpse into the giant picture that makes our little corner of the “cardiac world” seem very small…no less significant or serious, just that Rudy is one of many, MANY diverse situations and needs.  Honestly, I don’t know how the heart clinic Drs and NPs don’t leave work every day overwhelmed…I feel overwhelmed for them.  We’re scheduled to head back to clinic in 6 months.

So, our sights are now set on the cath next Tuesday.  Although Rudy has had close to ten heart caths in the past, this one will be different for him. Because he is no longer trached, he’ll have to be intubated which is uncomfortable and will leave him with a wicked sore throat when he wakes up from anesthesia.  😦  A trip to Baskin Robbins may be in order!  🙂  Thank you all for your continued prayers…we are forever grateful for, humbled by  and in awe of the love that surrounds our family.

Glad to be done and headed home...
Glad to be done and headed home…

Schedule Change

Rolf and I got the big kids off to KS Thursday evening and headed home from LAX with our long list of “to dos” we hoped to get done while they’re gone. We no sooner settled in to the quiet house when UCLA called to reschedule Rudy’s heart clinic appt from July 3rd to June 24th…this Tuesday!!!! So we’ve adjusted our schedules to accommodate a full day in LA at clinic.

Shortly after getting the call from clinic, Dr. Harake’s office called to confirm a heart cath on July 1st, again, at UCLA! So grateful for a spot in the queue but it does put my stomach in knots!!

We’ll work on the logistics of it all this next week…stay tuned.

"Bye, Bye Wah Wah"
“Bye, Bye Wah Wah”
"Bye, Bye I-ya"
“Bye, Bye I-ya”
"Bye, Bye Mackey"
“Bye, Bye Mackey”

Missing the big sibs!

Our Big Hearted Boy

Rudy sharing the love to our new friend Zeke!
Rudy sharing the love to our new friend Zeke!

It sure is fun to watch Rudy’s personality emerge more and more as he becomes more mobile and more verbal.  He’s so happy and goofy.  He has a great sense of humor, is inquisitive and has an astute sense of things going on around him.  When he hears a loud noise coming from the kitchen or picks up on a change in my intonation, he’s quick to ask “What happen Mom?”.  He has such a big heart and is beginning to express concern for others with a pat on the back and a “How’s it goin’?”.  I was thrilled this week when Rudy crawled over to the chair I was sitting in, pulled himself up and clearly said “I wuv you” without being prompted.  Music to my ears, for sure!  These are qualities we hope for and try to nurture in all our kids and it’s thrilling to see them freely flow from Rudy now too.

 

Ironically, as Rudy’s figurative heart enlarges so is his actual heart.  We touched base with Dr. Harake last week and Rudy’s heart is continuing to get bigger…it’s a slow trajectory but the development of Rudy’s overworked half-a-heart is definitely unfolding as predicted.  In addition to the notable change in Rudy’s heart size, Dr. Harake’s pulse oximeter (which normally reads Rudy’s O2 sats in the low 80s) couldn’t get a reading higher than 71%.  Rudy’s low O2 sats could be attributed to the increase in his physical activity but it’s something to keep an eye on for sure as the severity of Rudy’s heart failure would be assessed by a number of variables including chronic low O2 sats.  After the echocardiogram, Dr. Harake also “downgraded” the tricuspid valve leakage from mild/moderate to moderate…another variable in the big picture.  The tricuspid valve is located between the right atrium and right ventricle and it serves to prevent back flow of blood into the right atrium.

Diagram of a full, healthy human heart.
Diagram of a full, healthy human heart.

As Rudy’s compromised heart compensates, the right ventricle enlarges so that it can pump harder and this causes the tricuspid opening to become stretched out and floppy…this causes the valve to “leak” blood back into the atrium which creates unnatural pressure and causes the ventricle to work harder and get bigger…etc, etc,etc!  A vicious cycle!

A helpful comparison
A helpful comparison

One big “heart failure” indicator that we are NOT seeing yet is lethargy.  Although we’re seeing an increase in cyanosis, we’re not seeing a drastic change in Rudy’s energy level which is why I’m not panicking.  Dr. Harake is going to discuss the latest information with the UCLA team and decide whether or not to get a heart cath on the calendar.  Although I’d like to spare Rudy the discomfort of a heart cath, an updated look at all the things they can measure in a cath would be comforting to me…we’ll see.  Rudy’s next visit to the heart clinic at UCLA is July 3rd.  I guess it’s fair to say that we’re “on alert” but also very much aware that the road to full on heart failure could be a long one and so patience and discernment are key as we continue to monitor the situation from day to day.

As always, we sure appreciate your prayers!!

Our first week of summer vacation was full and fun and now we’re settling into Rudy’s summer school schedule.  Wilson is enjoying his first “real” job at our local car wash, Olivia is keeping busy with her dog walking job and craft projects, Max is looking forward to guitar camp coming up in a couple of weeks and all three big kids are headed to Kansas later this week to visit Gma Jo which will be a fun adventure!  Life marches on and we’re taking the time to cherish it all.  🙂  We hope your summer is a fun and happy one too!!  🙂

 

Happy Summer 2014!

My mind is still spinning from all that our family accomplished in the last week and a half but my prayers for a strong finish to the school year have been answered and I’m looking forward to a lack of structure to the “lazy” days of summer ahead of us…I just need a few days to decompress a bit.  🙂  Yay!  Welcome Summer!!!

May 30th was a BIG day that included Rudy’s official promotion from his “blended bonus year” to being a full time Kindergartener!  Woo Hoo …

May 30th Rudy's Graduation from Learning Tree
May 30th Rudy’s Graduation from Learning Tree

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Sharing a smile with Nurse Sara.
Sharing a smile with Nurse Sara.
Super grateful for Nurse Sara...
Super grateful for Nurse Sara…
Congratulations Rudy!
Congratulations Rudy!

May 30th also included La Patera’s 6th grade dance!!!  A special “end of the year” event that the 6th graders look forward to all year long!  Olivia and a couple of her friends had fun getting ready at our house after school…

Katie, Dahlia and Olivia all ready to dance!
Katie, Dahlia and Olivia all ready to dance!

Big bro Wilson took time out of his intense study schedule for finals to chauffeur the girls in our neighbor’s Grand Marquis…

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The girls rode in style for sure!
The girls rode in style for sure!

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Fun times...
Safe and sound!

Tuesday June 3rd was Olivia’s 6th grade promotion.  Rudy sat quietly throughout the entire ceremony which allowed Rolf, the boys and I to enjoy it all…it’s hard to believe it’s our last La Patera promotion…the culmination of so many memories for our whole family!

Olivia giving her promotion speech...
Olivia giving her promotion speech…
Our associate pastor and his girlfriend joined us at Olivia's invitation…so sweet!
Our associate pastor and his girlfriend joined us at Olivia’s invitation…so sweet!
Time to celebrate!  Olivia was the first one through the "tunnel of victory" made by the teachers!!
Time to celebrate! Olivia was the first one through the “tunnel of victory” made by the teachers!!

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Love this girl!
Love this girl!

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Rudy's special "big buddy" Lucas...
Rudy’s special “big buddy” Lucas…
Olivia and Mrs. Sweeney
Olivia and Mrs. Sweeney
Kindergarten pals...
Kindergarten pals…Dahlia and Olivia in 2007
BFFs in 2014
BFFs in 2014

Thursday June 5th was the last day of school for all 4 kids…Rudy enjoyed his last day in Mrs. Farrington’s class with his La Patera buddies.

June 5 - Last day of school at La Patera
June 5 – Last day of school at La Patera
Yay Mrs. Farrington!!
Yay Mrs. Farrington!!
Fun with special classmates...
Fun with special classmates…
The girls had fun with Rudy's walker and turned it into a train!
The girls had fun with Rudy’s walker and turned it into a train!
Rudy helped with classroom clean-up at the end of the day...
Rudy helped with classroom clean-up at the end of the day…
…but couldn't quite muster up enough energy to finish therapy later in the day at the MTU (Medical Therapy Unit).  :)
…but couldn’t quite muster up enough energy to finish therapy later in the day at the MTU (Medical Therapy Unit). 🙂
Max spent his first day of summer building a special surprise for Rudy...
Max spent his first day of summer building a special surprise for Rudy…
Tah Dah!  Rudy's new battery powered bike!
Tah Dah! Rudy’s new battery powered bike!
Although the big kids are happy for Rudy, they're pretty mad at me and Rolf as they ALL wanted something similar when they were Rudy's age and we said "no"…yep, that's right, we're mean and unfair!
Although the big kids are happy for Rudy, they’re pretty mad at me and Rolf as they ALL wanted something similar when they were Rudy’s age and we said “no”…yep, that’s right, we’re mean and unfair!
Go, go, GO!!
Go, go, GO!!
Neighbor Mike is pretty  impressed with Rudy's new ride!  Thumbs up all around!!
Neighbor Mike is pretty impressed with Rudy’s new ride! Thumbs up all around!!
Special ride...
Special ride…

There really have been more moments to savor the past 9 days than we’ve been able to document on Rudy’s Beat…Rudy’s smiles have been the biggest I’ve ever seen in the last couple of days since the big sibs have been home…the BEST part of Rudy’s summer for sure!  Grateful, grateful!

Praying for our Neighbors in IV

Folks around here are shocked and deeply saddened in the aftermath of last Friday night’s shooting rampage that took place nearby in Isla Vista.  Although our family doesn’t  know anyone who was directly affected, we know quite a few people who are involved in helping to “pick up the pieces” and bring healing to the community at large…friends who work in the UCSB counseling office, UCSB employees, Sheriff Bill Brown, students…and our hearts are heavy for the students & faculty left to process it all and the families who are left with such deep, deep loss.  We’re just a quick 5 minute drive from where the shootings occurred…a place we visit often to go to our favorite taqueria “Freebirds”.  On one hand, Isla Vista can feel like another world away as it is densely populated with UCSB and SB City College students and is known for crazy college parties but on the other hand it’s quite startling to stop and realize how integrated we are to the UCSB community…in addition to our frequent runs to Freebirds, one of our favorite stretches of beach (Campus Point) is in Isla Vista, Olivia plays Volleyball at UCSB and is coached by students, Rudy will go to summer school at Isla Vista elementary, the Alpha Phis (the sorority initially targeted by the shooter) volunteer at the Rescue Mission a couple of times a month, (etc, etc) and Liv was just on campus for a field trip Friday morning…it hits close to home literally and figuratively.

I have to admit, too, that I feel a heightened sense of  (I’m not sure this is going to come out right) discouragement over these senseless killings.  I really don’t mean to make this about me but I find it a little strange that my first emotional response is discouragement rather than feeling sad or even angry.   I really think that since our family’s time, energy, resources and focus 24/7 are spent trying to preserve a life, it makes events like what happened in Isla Vista seem even more tragic to me.  It’s a very complicated situation, I know, with so many variables and I don’t want to over-simplify it by any means…it’s just how I’m feeling today….disappointed and burdened.

Ironically, as all of this  unfolded in Isla Vista, our big boys were in San Diego for a church youth conference at Pt. Loma University.  They spent 4 days with 1500 other teens competing in a variety of fun events, worshipping God together, encouraging one another and having a blast.  Wilson entered a preaching competition, Max always the sports enthusiast played hard at the sporting events and they both competed in a talent competition together  – click here or here.  (FUN!)  So, as I had one eye on the local news coverage, my other eye (albeit teary eye) caught glimpses of what the boys and their friends were up to down south on FB…stark contrasting images indeed.   It made me pray for those 1500 teens even harder…that the TRUTHS of life would root in their hearts, that they would know they are deeply LOVED no matter their circumstances and that they would CHERISH life – their own as well as purposing to make life better for others…

It feels a little weird to be plugging away at the daily schedule but there has been so much to fill our week this week…studying for finals, the DPHS Talent Show (Max ROCKED it), preparation for LP’s 6th grade promotion ceremony next week & Rudy’s graduation from Learning Tree as well as the big 6th grade dance TOMORROW!  ‘So grateful for it all…

Pt. Loma
Pt. Loma
The boys performing at the conference last weekend.
The boys performing at the conference last weekend.

I got a sweet glimpse into Olivia’s mind through poems she wrote this year in her poem journal for school…my favorites are her preposition poem which describes the day Rudy came home from the hospital and the last stanza of her “I am from…” poem.  A great reminder that “it’s all good”

Preposition Poem:  My Baby Brother

(By Olivia Geyling)

“Inside the house

Until I see the car

Through the rain I run

By the bushes

Past the tree

To the car

In my arms

After a year

Beneath blankets

At his home

Below my eyes are tears

With my baby brother.”

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Praying for peace and healing for our community tonight.

Countdown to Summer!

It’s only been a couple of weeks since our last post but, boy, the full spring calendar continues around here and we’ve packed in quite a bit …Mother’s Day, a trip to the pediatric dental clinic at UCLA, a Girl Scout camping trip, Rudy’s first “beach day” and Rolf’s birthday!!!  With just 12 school days left of school, the boys’ finals and Livy’s 6th grade promotion are just around the corner.  It’s an exciting time, for sure.

With so much going on in the life of our family, it has been nice to have a little respite from major medical “to dos”….we’ve remained current in all of Rudy’s routine appointments but there hasn’t been any medication changes or follow up treatments to schedule and it feels like a break.

Rolf and I took Rudy down for his first teeth cleaning at the dental clinic at UCLA and we were very encouraged by the appt…Rudy cooperated  and his oral health status continues to be good.  There is no sign of calculus (hardened plaque) at the base of his teeth and gums (which would be BAD) but the calculus that is on the surface of his teeth continues to provide a protective seal against decay (which is GOOD).  The dentist he saw this time confirmed what the dentist told us back in September during our first consultation and all of the information gathered by the dental clinic will be passed on to the docs at the heart clinic as it will be important in determining Rudy’s eligibility for a heart transplant down the road….just one of many variables in determining his eligibility but it’s definitely an important piece of the puzzle.  The tiny victories along the way are definitely encouraging.

Even though Rudy resisted at first, he eventually opened up and made it through 3 verses of "Brush, Brush, Brush Your Teeth" to the tune of "Row, Row, Row Your Boat" while the doctor methodically cleaned his teeth!  :) Yay Rudy!
Even though Rudy resisted at first, he eventually opened up and made it through 3 verses of “Brush, Brush, Brush Your Teeth” to the tune of “Row, Row, Row Your Boat” while the doctor methodically cleaned his teeth! 🙂 Yay Rudy!
Good boy Rudy!
Good boy Rudy!

Here’s a look at some of the other big events of the month…

Mama on Mother's Day.  The family speaking my "love language" at In n Out!
Mama on Mother’s Day. The family speaking my “love language” at In ‘n Out!

I broke tradition and actually went camping this past weekend with Olivia’s Girl Scout troop…one last big hurrah before promotion.  It was a special time, for sure, with the girls…most of whom have been Girl Scouts together since Kindergarten!  Since we camped at El Cap just 10 minutes away from home, Rudy and Rolf joined us for our day at the beach and it was fun to share Rudy’s first REAL day at the beach with the girls.

Sunset at El Cap with 19 of my favorite Girl Scouts!  :)
Sunset at El Cap with 19 of my favorite Girl Scouts! 🙂

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Rudy getting his feet wet...
Rudy getting his feet wet…
Beach fun!
Beach fun!

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We got home on Sunday just in time to celebrate Rolf’s birthday!  A perfect exclamation point to a fun weekend of many blessings.

Happy Birthday Rolfi!
Happy Birthday Rolfi!

 

 

Immeasurable Riches

We are definitely in a FULL season right now with LOTS going on but, thankfully, that also translates into “riches” in the form of a variety of fun activities, new experiences and beautiful people.  It’s a season of heightened gratitude as well as we wind down another school year and take a little time to reflect on the fun that was had & the kids’ accomplishments this past year.  Our family was blessed by another great batch of teachers and we enjoyed having many of them over for dinner in appreciation of all their hard work.  We had the 6th grade La Patera teachers and a couple of Dos Pueblos teachers over last Wednesday evening and Rudy’s teachers from La Patera and Learning Tree over last night!!  Two evenings full of great company, pleasant conversation, good food, belly laughs and greater insight into the lives of the men and women who help educate our kids.  Talk about RICH!!  Our kids are being invested in by a group of people with varying personalities, passions and life experiences and we couldn’t be more grateful for all that Wilson, Max, Olivia & Rudy are learning not only from these individuals but also through their example.

Rudy had a transitional IEP (Individual Education Plan) meeting yesterday.  This is normally an annual meeting that happens for Rudy near his birthday in the fall but because Rudy will be transitioning from pre-K to Kindergarten officially in the fall, it’s necessary to meet and iron out all the details now.  Yesterday’s meeting included Rudy’s current teachers, speech therapist, occupational therapist, district nurse, classroom nurse, adaptive PE teacher, the district psychologist, the district special ed director, next year’s school principal, next year’s speech therapist and next year’s general ed & special ed Kindergarten teachers…phew!!!  Once again, Rolf and I walked away humbled by and grateful for the many voices accessing and speaking into Rudy’s overall educational experience.  Old goals were discussed, new goals were established and plans for Rudy to be placed in an immersion class made up of special ed and typical children were made.  The program looks like a great one but it does mean that Rudy will be permanently placed at Mountain View Elementary School and our family will have to say “goodbye” to our beloved La Patera after 7 great years there.  The La Patera community of staff and families rallied around us when Rudy was born and were of practical support in the many months that followed (i.e. brought our family meals for 7 months while Rolf and I shuttled back and forth between home and the hospital), they celebrated with us when we brought him home, they helped keep a close eye on the big kids through it all (giving an extra reassuring hug when needed) and welcomed Rudy, officially, as a part-time student this year!  Precious memories…talk about RICH!!

We’ll have to say goodbye to the special teachers at Learning Tree as well.  We always knew Rudy’s time at Learning Tree would just be for this year but we believe in establishing roots wherever we land (no matter the duration) and we’ve grown very fond of the staff there…friendly, patient, focused & firm when necessary but always loving.  Rudy has developed a great deal this past year…and he greatly benefited from his time at Learning Tree.

Rudy and his teacher team!  Shari Farrington -Kindergarten teacher at La Patera, teachers Stephanie and Erin from Learning Tree, Nurse Sara, and teachers Angie Joeanna & Melanie from Learning Tree as well.
Rudy and his teacher team! (left to right) Shari Farrington -Kindergarten teacher at La Patera, teachers Stephanie and Erin from Learning Tree, Nurse Sara, and teachers Angie Joeanna & Melanie from Learning Tree as well.
Look at the smile on Rudy's face!!!
Look at the smile on Rudy’s face!!!

The one constant in all of this, for which Rolf and I are deeply grateful, is Nurse Sara (pictured in the middle).  She began working with Rudy at the start of this school year, will accompany him to summer school and, if all goes as planned, will continue on with him next year at Mountain View.  A large part of Rudy’s success at school this year is due to her easy-going demeanor, nursing expertise, compassion and the continuity of care she provides for him no matter the locale.  She is a huge support to him and their bond is clearly established…and I’m pretty grateful for her friendship too!  🙂

All of this adds up to immeasurable riches in the life of our family and, as always, we are blown away!

It's official!  Swim season is upon us and with the pool a comfortable 85 degrees...it's warm enough for Rudy to enjoy too!  Without the trach stoma, Rudy can enjoy a little independent pool time and he's taking every advantage of having a pool in the backyard!  Ha Ha
It’s official! Swim season is upon us and with the pool water a comfortable 85 degrees, it’s warm enough for Rudy to enjoy too! Without the trach stoma, Rudy is beginning to explore  the pool independently and he’s taking every advantage of having a pool in the backyard! Ha Ha  Go, Rudy, Go!!
Some recent fun with Wilson and "Oswald" the rabbit...
Some recent fun with Wilson and “Oswald” the rabbit…

We have just 4 more weeks left of school…there’s something on the calendar practically every day between now and then…the race to the finish begins…now!  Here we go!  🙂

 

 

 

Happy Belated Easter!

Spring is definitely in full swing around here…Wilson’s birthday is now a distant memory, the sorrow of Holy Week is fading, the great joy of Easter is still fresh in our hearts and Mother’s Day is just around the corner!  We had a fun, full Easter celebration yesterday and hope you did too.  🙂  In addition to all the familiar events the spring season holds for our family every year, Rudy was invited by one of his La Patera classmates to a fun birthday party this past weekend…a party that included a bounce house…a new favorite to add to Rudy’s top 10 list!!  Ha Ha  He had a blast and was clearly pleased to hang out with school friends outside of school.  It was fun watching him have so much fun.  🙂

We saw Rudy’s cardiologist last week.  The routine appointment didn’t hold any surprises…there is no change in Rudy’s heart function.  Dr. Harake  feels like there isn’t much need to schedule a heart cath at this time so it looks like we may have a procedure-free summer…which would be great.

The topic of our discussion this visit was the risks we face as we wait.  Since the Glenn (the second in a series of heart surgeries to reroute the blood’s circulation) is likely no longer an option and the possibility of a heart transplant is still to be determined, we are forced to wait patiently.  What are we waiting for?  For the risk of NOT doing something to become greater than the risk of doing something.  As long as Rudy continues to grow and is happy (dare I say “thriving”), there is little reason to move forward in treatment.  It has taken me a long time to be content with this internally…although I’ve been patient and have trusted Rudy’s doctors every step of the way, I have approached each check-in with the SB and LA cardiologists with great anticipation of “the next step”…wanting something tangible…a date in the calendar…an action step (emphasis on action).  This need for a plan is becoming less urgent…I still get a little antsy around check-ins but mostly these appointments sneak up on me and I don’t have big expectations going into them (a good thing).  So, as we wait, there are two main things we are looking for…signs of heart failure (which would put us on a faster track toward determining Rudy’s eligibility for a heart transplant) and signs that Rudy is outgrowing his shunt (which was the topic of discussion with Dr. Harake last week).

What is currently keeping Rudy alive is a tiny 5mm tube (called a Sano Shunt) that was placed by Dr. Brian when Rudy was 5 days old.  In Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome patients, the most urgent problem is that the heart is unable to pump blood to the body. The goal of  Rudy’s first heart surgery (the Norwood) was to connect his single ventricle to his body’s circulatory system disrupting blood flow to his lungs and so an alternative path needed to be created to supply blood his lungs. The Sano Shunt allowed (and continues to allow) for this pulmonary blood flow.  The shunt was really only intended to be used for a few months until the Glenn procedure but it continues to serve Rudy well 5 1/2+ years later!!!  Rudy had 2 stents placed in his shunt back in 2012 to open it up as it had decreased to about half of it’s original size over time but other than that, Rudy’s original shunt has gone untouched.  Although we have spent a good bit of time thinking about and planning for the possibility of Rudy’s heart failing, what will likely happen first is that he will outgrow his Sano shunt.  We haven’t talked to Rudy’s surgeon (Dr. Brian) in a long time but since nothing has changed in Rudy’s status, the expected course of action would be to replace the shunt when the time comes.  I’m not sure how surprising it is to the medical community that the Sano has lasted as long as it has in Rudy’s case but it sure seems like we’re getting our money’s worth and then some…thanks to Dr. Shunji Sano’s work, Dr. Brian Reemtsen’s skills and God’s sustaining power in it all! 🙂  We are grateful that Rudy’s body continues to thrive with such a narrow path of blood flow centered in a very small fraction of his body…simply AMAZING!!!

 

Speaking of “amazing”, here are some amazing moments from the past couple of weeks…

Happy 17th Birthday to Wilson!  April 9, 2014
Happy 17th Birthday to Wilson! April 9, 2014
Rudy's first experience in the computer lab at school!  Nurse Sara texted me this pic with the caption "Rudy's dream day at school...a room full of computers".  :)  LOVE it!!
Rudy’s first experience in the computer lab at school! Nurse Sara texted me this pic with the caption “Rudy’s dream day at school…a room full of computers”. 🙂 LOVE it!!
Easter Feast at the Rescue Mission...playing and singing for the homeless guests in the courtyard as they waited...Max and I loved having Olivia (a student from Westmont) join us!
Easter Feast at the Rescue Mission…playing and singing for the homeless guests in the courtyard as they waited…Max and I loved having Olivia (a student from Westmont) join us!
Our Olivia greeting guests with a sweet treat!
Our Olivia greeting guests with a sweet treat!
Rudy enjoying the bounce house at a classmate's bday party...
Rudy enjoying the bounce house at a classmate’s bday party…
...and the friends IN the bounce house!!!!  Yay friends!
…and the friends IN the bounce house!!!! Yay friends!
Easter 2014..."Show us your eggs Rudy!!!"
Church Easter Egg Hunt 2014…”Show us your eggs Rudy!!!”
Rudy's stash!
Rudy’s stash!
Olivia's stash!
Olivia’s stash!
Happy Easter!
The Easter Bunny’s stash!  Happy Easter!
The Easter bunny brought Rudy new swim attire!  The black eye?  Not sure where that came from...it was either from all the bounce house fun from the day before OR from wrestling with big brothers!  Ha Ha
The Easter bunny brought Rudy new swim attire! The black eye? Not so sure where that came from…it was either from all the bounce house fun the day before OR from wrestling with big brothers! Ha Ha

We’ll certainly keep you posted of any changes but for now we anticipate a summer full of wet fun as Rudy sprouts some fins and learns to swim!!!!