We are grieving the loss of Rolf’s dad today. After a long battle with Parkinsons, Franz had a stroke 10 days ago and passed away yesterday (Monday), February 17, 2014…he was 87. I am grateful that Rolf was able to fly out Sunday and arrive in Auburn in time to be with his family and spend time at his dad’s side before he passed. Franz will be missed. He was a good man who cared for his family, was passionate about his life’s work as an engineer, made significant professional contributions in his field and modeled commitment throughout his life to his wife of 52 years, his work, his four children and later to his 15 grandchildren.
I loved my father-in-law and appreciated his presence in my life. I’m grateful for the ways he welcomed me into his family and demonstrated his care and concern for my family. Franz was a man of contradictions which is what made him so interesting to me…at first glance, I don’t think anyone would have described him as a huge risk-taker…he was conservative with his resources, careful in his choices and methodical in his approach to life and yet he made some pretty bold moves in his life that included leaving his family in China and Europe as a young college student to establish a new life in America – pretty risky if you ask me!
Franz could also be described as extremely intelligent – he had an engineer’s mind that could easily digest all things technical. If you asked him a simple question, more often than not his answer would be filled with references to physics and other branches of science you didn’t even know applied! 🙂 Opa may have had the mind of an engineer but he also had the hand of an artist and he delighted us in his later years with his renderings of familiar places and faces (Rolf’s roses were a favorite subject during visits to Goleta).
I knew Franz to be a man of many words…if you got him talking about his fascinating family history, he could spin a detailed yarn for hours at the dinner table…and yet, I also knew him to be a man of few words…he chose his words carefully and was thoughtful (maybe even sparing) in his affirmation…which made notes like this one even more meaningful:
Losing Opa makes me miss my Dad a little more today too. I am blessed to have had them both in my life.
Schlaf gut Opa! Schlaf in himmlischer Ruh…Liebe, Trish
“Merciful Jesus, Lamb of God, Grant him rest…everlasting rest.”
(an abbreviated translation of “Pie Jesu”…my version below recorded for the service)